Another real time post.

So I talked yesterday about balance.

It was specifically in reference to finding balance between a strict structured lifestyle and a free flowing one. I read through that post and found that:

A. my posts tend to be a lot longer than I realize they are

and

B. I am not an inch closer to progression on the matter.

BUT- I also realized that I’m beginning to understand myself just a liiiiiiittle bit more, so hopefully that’s a step towards progression…which is progress I guess?

I’m started to sound crazy again.

I just think that as hard of a time as I have had trying to just get out how I feel about whatever it is I’m even talking about, it’s starting to make sense to me a little bit. It may not to you (sorry! ha!) but I’m starting to understand myself a little better and am learning how to build and improve in my own life.

This is why I came here to this blog in the first place.

It’s the smallest little flicker of light, but it’s there so I’m going to hold on to it and give gratitude so that this knowledge of self might spread like wildfire.

I’m happy to be here and I’m happy you’re here (if you’re here ;) ) and you might have ended up here for no other reason than just to see that you’re not alone in feeling like you have absolutely no clue what you’re doing. ♥

Lots of love to you

xx

Weekend Happenings!

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I can’t lie and say I know what legend that’s from or if it is a legend at all and someone didn’t just make it up for a pinterest graphic, but what I can tell you is that I love it. It sounds like it’s from a story I would have loved as a child or a sci-fi movie that I would love now as an adult (wait, am I an adult?).

I also can’t say that this post includes the entirety of my weekend happenings. I did something I’ve been waiting to do for MONTHS now and I just got home yesterday so the post will have to wait until a little later in the week. I’ve got sooo many pictures to go through. See, I’m doing much better!

What I can tell you that’s been going on (beyond this past weekend) is some seriously crazy dreams. So, no, I’m not awake at night possibly in someone else’s dreams but if you have been having a bout of insomnia…you are possibly awake in mine. The crazy thing is though, I can remember almost all of them in great detail. I haven’t been writing them down (I’m about to change that..) but I can still remember them so vividly. It’s weird.

I’ve even had a repeat of a dream I had literally years ago, that I still remember. What’s even more weird is that the scenery from that dream showed up in a movie a few years after I had it. I know that sounds like I borderline need to be institutionalized or maybe saw the movie poster and just didn’t remember, and that’s fine. I know, and I’m the only one that needs to know that I’m not insane. Unless I am?! Kidding. I’m kidding. About the insane thing, not the dream thing because I definitely had that dream about 2 years before that movie was even talked about.

And no, I’m not pregnant. When researching crazy dreams, you get many a article on how it happens in pregnancy a lot, but it seems it’s later on down the line anyway.

A weekend update on a Wednesday: July 4th

Umm..hello you all!!!

I can’t believe it’s been almost a week since I was last here. When I realized that yesterday, it hit me that this past week has FLOWN by! I guess it’s because after I got home on Wednesday from my trip to my hometown (part one, part two) my husband had off from work the very next day through YESTERDAY! That’s right, a whole SIX days off!!

He is in the restaurant biz so if you know anything about that, you know it can be rare to have almost an entire week off…and over a holiday? Whaaaaa?! So, I’ve been off frolicking with him. It’s been awesome. We didn’t plan any trip or anything, we just stayed home and celebrated the 4th with friends. Sometimes planning a trip over a long period of time off from work can be more stress than fun (not always, just sometimes!) then you feel like you need a vacation from your vacation…but what we chose to do was laid back and actually relaxing. Even clean up from the day after the 4th was surprisingly easy. I think it was just what we needed.

Honestly, I did yet another terrible job at photo documentation. I WILL GET BETTER AT THIS! Not sure if I’m trying to convince you or myself…

We made pickles on Thursday for the first time! We used cucumbers from our garden, the recipe was great and they turned out awesome. I don’t know that I can ever go back to store bought pickles again. After seeing and tasting these it really makes me question why the heck store bought pickles are…yellow..ya know? Anyways… I do think that for my tangy taste buds I would add an extra helping of vinegar ;)

 

making picklesMaking Pickles with this recipe from diynatural.com

So, we had people over on Friday and I was assuming it was just going to be people we knew, a laid back little adventure, but there ended up being a few people there that I hadn’t met. They were nice and a wee bit younger than me so I found myself chilling looking like this:

mom jeansyoga pants, favorite sweatshirt. Ya know, the usual.

Toooottally feeling like this:

momjeansmemeEven though we were just at my house. Ps- I found this on IG somewhere srry idk where! bad blogger!

Saturday I helped a girlfriend move the first part of the day. She had to put stuff in storage because she’s moving to Florida. I’m so sad! But strangely enough we didn’t do a long drawn out goodbye. I think we both feel like it doesn’t matter that she’s moving, our friendship is solid and I like that. But I will still miss you Hay!!

uhaulI have got to start practicing better posture.

Following helping Hayley was grilling, drinking domestic beer and not taking photos. I did manage to get a day photo and a night photo. I really wish I would have gotten a picture of our outfits. They were casually festive. Andre’s day shirt had random red stars all over it and it’s epic. It’s vintage from his dad from the 70’s. It’s super see through though and he spilled chili on it so changed for the evening when we went out to the bar and went with a t-shirt to pay a different sort of respect. I put on heels and makeup. All around it was a fun day!

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Sunday was an easy clean up, hangover free and relaxing. No photos documented this day because it was filled with junk food, Netflix and some good ol’ fashioned alone time. Monday things picked up a little bit with our 4th of July Folf (Frisbee Golf or Disc Golf) tournament. We have a course on our property and love hosting friends to come play! I say we but I mean Andre and his dad. I walk out there sometimes but I am president of the wives club so I usually just sit inside and drink wine with the women. Or alone if I’m the only women. I like to go out there in the evenings though when it’s blue. I’ll have to remember to take a photo out there during my favorite time of day. It’s so serene.

folfwinnerSnapshot with the tournament winner!! ♥

So that’s my little 6 day long staycation! Ok so maybe just 5. Tuesday’s photos&update will appear tomorrow when I’m back here for The Makeup Mix up ;) !! Whewww was I thrown right out of my comfort zone. Can’t wait to share! I’m sending you lots of warm and fuzzy energy, hoping you made it safe through the holiday and are having a wonderful week!!

 

xx

 

Weekend Happenings!

Hey, hey it’s Monday, ya knoo-ooooow.

K I’m done. Does anyone else sing unrelated lyrics to familiar tunes?

Anyway!

Ok so my week/weekend had been nuts and I often wonder if you guys hate me because I don’t take enough pictures. Ok so hate is an intense word but really I am so terrible about preserving the moment in pictures that I’m embarrassed. I’m sorta kinda a blogger now so I need to get my shxt together right?!

So without further ado- here is a mimnial picture (as in just one) post updating you on my weekend happenings.

Friday. So if you read Friday’s post, you know that I was in Wilmington last week helping my grandparents, visiting friends and family and so on. Well, I was still in Wilmington on Friday. I spend that day continuing to help my grandparents get settled in their place and that’s pretty much that. Morning until dark. Whew.

Saturday was more eventful in that after helping my grandparents with some things, I went to see the new movie DOPE with my cousin after visiting with my other grandparent for a bit. Yea I know, how lucky am I that my grandparents (among other relatives) all live in one city? Love it! After the movie, we had some crab dip and sparkling wine at a restaurant we enjoy then it was straight to bed for me because I’m lame. Translation: I have no children and I still crash. Lord help me when I am a momma. I feel like I say that a lot.

Sunday was spent finishing up some things my grandmother needed help with as well as packing up my things for my journey back to my husband and kitty babies. I was able to find some quiet time on the front porch of my grandparents’ house with a glass of wine and catch a view of the beautiful colors the sun put on display as it set over the river.

sunsetskyMy no filter iphone photo. NC is such a beautiful place.

Lots was happening last week and weekend! I’m always thankful for opportunities to see friends and family although I’m never able to fit everything in that I want to do no matter how long I stay. I suppose I should pride myself on the fact that I get lost in the moments rather than feel the need to take a thousand photos (I feel like I say that a lot) but I really do want to get better about taking pictures. The reason is not just the blog (although I’m hoping it will hold me accountable to my goal) but it’s moreso just because my friend Niki really showed me how important taking photos can end up being. Photographs can be such a blessing and I want to stop taking them for granted I suppose. Does that make any sense?

Anyway. I had a lovely weekend with the ones I love and I hope you did too. Cheers to new adventures in the week ahead!

xx

Five Favorites on Friday!

It’s Friday! Friday! Gotta get down on…

no?

Ok.

Hellooooo glorious friends and family! (Hey Papa!)

My Papa gets a special shout out today because it’s National Donut Day! Whoop Whoop! We LOVE donuts and we just so happen to live right around the corner from Britt’s Donuts. If you’ve never heard of them, people use words like “heavenly” to describe these things. They’ve been on a bunch of best donut shops list nationally, they are the bomb. The best part? They don’t need ANY bells and whistles. Just a good ol’ glazed donut will knock your socks off. That is if you’re up for waiting…sometimes up to AN HOUR AND A HALF…in line. It’s insane but not a single person says it isn’t worth it. People literally come from all over to try these bad boys. I wish I had a photo but I don’t (are you surprised?). I’ll get one next time I go back to my hometown.

So I guess that’s my first favorite thing! National Donut Day/Britt’s Donuts. Should that be 2 things?

I’ve been watching Graceland on Netflix this week and it’s quickly become a fav for sure. The new season starts on the 25th of this month and I’m pretty stoked. I still have to get through season 2 but I think I can make it happen by then. Obviously because I was able to watch season one this week. ha! Hi, I’m Jlynn and I’m a Nextflix binger. Now that I mention it, I should probably just go ahead and add Netflix to this list. Netflix is my favorite. I just said Netflix like a hundred time. Over exaggeration. Ok moving on!

I guess another favorite thing is my title because it’s totally obnoxious (just like today’s post!). I see those link ups but I never know which one to join! I’ve recently discovered that I can join as many as I want in one post. I’m about ta go HAM. But today, I’m chillin’ with my girl Miranda for Coffee Chat (even though coffee is on the list of 5 things that aren’t my favorite. gasp!) because that’s another one of my favorite things. Seriously, I love it. She posts fun links that I love. Every one of them is always great.

Speaking of links and things that are my favorite….

Watch this little girl cry upon finding out her baby brother will one day grow up. If this is old news than I’m sorry I’m so lame but I just saw this today.

You’ll have to excuse me, this week has been rather slow for me, which has not been my favorite. So I guess for my final favorite thing (even though this makes 7), this cute little photo I found on pinterest. It makes me happy to look at it so it made me happy to  share it with you! I hope your weekend is full of happy thoughts and my love is with you for hanging out through my random rambles today. I guess we’ll see if my head is cleared up come Monday :) Happy Weekend, yall!

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***Linking up with Miranda for Coffee Chat!!

A Poem

Over the weekend, one of the eventful moments I was able to be a part of was the 2nd birthday party of my sweet friend Nikita’s baby girl. I was nervous at first but there was so much love and joy at the celebration of this firecracker of a little girl that all that was eased within moments of arriving. I found myself a  little emotional during the singing of the happy birthday song but couldn’t help but smile at the baby girl all cuddled up on her daddy’s chest. I couldn’t have been more honored that Andrew and I were able to be there for that special moment.

Before the weekend commenced, I was sitting on my couch just thinking about Niki and all the joy she still brings to so many lives. I was inspired with a poem right there in that moment and I felt in a strange way that she could hear me. After a brief chat and an expression of my poem I felt that I wanted to share it with her daughter for when she’s older and more recently (today in fact!), with all of you. There are so many pieces of life that inspire me and Niki is largely one of those. She inspires me to live a most joyful life, to love everyone and to be myself.

I’ve been terrified to post any of my poems here so I figured I would start with this one. The woman who inspired it, I think, would be proud of me for doing something that for me, requires much bravery.

Stars.

The last year of her life was just one day long.

She continued to inspire even after she was gone.

A moment of light that shines way into the distance.

And carries on into future existence.

-JCS

Nikita was a shining star in the life of everyone who met her even for just a moment and even still today although her new life is up there in the heavens. With love.

xx

The Best Birthday!

Happy Monday folks! I hope you had an awesome weekend!!

My first weekend as a 25 year old was super eventful and a blast. A few hiccups along the way but they can make things more interesting so it’s all good. We’re here, we’re safe, we’re happy. Life is amazingly beautiful.

The most beautiful thing happened to me last week though, was on my birthday. I didn’t have a party or anything and actually we didn’t even go out to dinner until the next night. It was the best day though because My husband gave me the most wonderful birthday gift.

A little background story:

I had been complaining to Andre himself about how hurt my feelings were that I was seeing lots of cards I had written him just tossed about around the house. I even saw some on the floorboard of his car! My love language is words of affirmation so to me, it was basically like seeing my heart and soul just dumped out all over the place without a care.

Flash forward to two weeks later when I open my birthday gift and saw this:

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I immediately burst into tears when I saw that what he had done. He had taken a few of the cards I had written him and turned their cover artwork into a collage around words I had written him, cut out and rearranged into his own message to me.

My heart exploded. Turns out, the cards I had seen in all those random places were the ones he was collecting to use, just not in a very organized way, ha!  The only chance he had to work on it where I wouldn’t know or find it were his breaks at work so it had taken him about two weeks to complete from beginning to end.

He had taken the time to put such a creative gift together for me that centered around the thing that makes my soul thrive, heartfelt words. It was such an act of kindness that touched my spirit in a way that I have never known before. I needed that. My heart had been a bit overwhelmed, not necessarily in a bad way..but not a peaceful way either. It was weird but not. I don’t know. My birthday can be a weird time for me. I start thinking on such deep levels, I can go a little cray!

But then, I felt light as a feather because Andrew gave me the most beautiful thing a person can receive, the overwhelming joyful experience of being loved.

I am so thankful for my husband who continues to show such great love for me on new levels, constantly.

Sending you all massive amounts of good energy today. Praying for such great love for each and every one of you all, too.

Here’s to another beautiful week, filled with lots of gratitude and joy ♥

xx

Walking on Water

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Most of you reading probably know that I’m from a mid-size beach town on the east coast. Having grown up at the beach I always find it astonishing when people have only been a handful of times or even not at all. If you’ve never been, then the physical experience I’m about to share won’t be relatable but the message I think is for everyone. It jumped out at me one October day last year on one of my final trips to the beach as a resident.

When you’re walking away from the ocean, it looks like you’re walking on a treadmill. You’re moving forward towards (more) solid ground and there is a force behind you taking out the old and bringing in the new- literally changing the ground you’re walking on right before your eyes.

But at first glance, it seems you’re going nowhere.

With my 25th birthday having just passed, I can’t help but think about how far I’ve come. I can’t help but think of sweet Nikita. I can’t help but think of all the ups and downs I’m sure are to continue to come as the year continues to progress, just like  in years past. But this year, and forevermore,  I want to hold on to this reminder that as the years pass, although there will be times where it seems like: We are going nowhere. Things aren’t changing. No one cares…

The fact is that no matter how good/smart/organized/efficient we are, we never truly see the whole picture.

There are forces all around us that we can’t see that are working for our aid, not just against us, as sometimes it might seem. This is true, but it is still up to us to keep moving. You see, if you stand too long on the ocean’s treadmill like surface your feet will sink into the earth as the waves move in and out, as though you were standing on quicksand. It becomes increasing harder to move forward…but stillnot impossible. As long as one keeps moving forward, a more solid ground will be found.

So as we continue to move full speed ahead through this year and beyond, I challenge you (and my own self) to take a second look. A deeper look. To forever stay positive and hopeful. To believe that everything can work out for your greater good. Believe that the old will flush out, the new will come in and you’ll be standing on solid ground when all is said and done – even if it doesn’t look that way in the present moment.

This message came at an exceptionally perfect time for me because at the time, I was about to make my first move away from my hometown, my family and the sea. Something I was excited about, but scared of all at the same time. Although this encouragement came in 2014 and I’m sharing it in 2015, it’s one I want to carry with me for the rest of my years because I believe it to be relevant no matter where you are in life. My hope is that you might be blessed and carry it with you as well.

lalunaOne of my current favorite photos of a hometown beach. Luna in the corner shining ♥

 

 

I would like to express great gratitude for the beach, the ocean and all its many wonders and life lessons.

x

 

**Joining Miranda for Coffee Chat today!

25

Today is my 25th birthday.

babyjlynn1new baby jlynn with her granny

For some reason I’ve felt the need to post something and even had some things to publish but…nothing ended up feeling quite right.

This morning, I happened to stumble upon a piece of paper from high school. In chorus my senior year, our director Mr. Bron had us write our name on a blank piece of paper and pass it around the room. We were to all write encouraging things about whomever had been passed to us. Everyone wrote something about everyone then they were retuned and we got to keep ours.

I have been feeling weird today (I can think of one reason..) but everything else is just I guess a range of emotions about what birthdays mean. I suppose they are the day (as you get older) the universe of culture has you stop to celebrate, only to leave you reflecting on what it means in the future. It’s overwhelming me a bit so I think it’s no coincidence I found these pieces of paper (actually 3 stapled together), today.

1yroldjlynn1Happy birthday 1 yr old jlynn! Smash cakes were a little bigger back in the day I guess. And No that’s not a ghost in the back that’s my granny ha!

I sat down on the patio and began reading through what the people I hung out with most in high school had to say about me. About this girl who was 1/2 100% real- totally there, and 1/2 hidden away. See, I was dealing with things but when I competed in a pageant or went to school, I could be myself more than anywhere else. I decided to stop competing in pageants when it got to be too much and luckily the year before that was when I graduated so it didn’t do too much damage on my grades. Although, if I’m being honest, I was a terrible student. Simply awful at math.

I’ve been talking a lot here on the blog about my past self and my new self – and then here on these few pieces of paper, they meet.

9yroldjlynn1Princess tea party for 9 yr old jlynn

I can see the life of that girl I used to be played out in the different fonts and ink shades that dance across the pages. The first, home to a gigantic, purple “JLYNN” right in the center. “Write your name big enough?!” begins one excerpt. It makes me laugh. They were all anonymous but some, I’m able to identify. I find a passage from one who stopped speaking to me years ago, promising eternal friendship. I see bits from people to whom I was not their cup of tea, obviously trying to find nice things to say about me, but succeeding. Even those make me smile. And then there are the glimpses into those pieces of me (no Britney pun intended) to which I wanted to keep.

I realized, spelled out on these pieces of paper was a phase of life.

Some things don’t stay with you through your life but some do. Some things we can choose, like whether to be a kind person or a mean person. And some we can’t, like a friend who is done with the friendship or the loss of a loved one. Today, I find it easy to think of a world of unknowns. A life lived without anxiety of my past (what does that even mean?!) but also without anxiety of the future. I know I won’t always succeed in that, but I do want to hold on to those pieces of me that I’ve chosen and always want to choose to keep, regardless of how gentle or rough the waters may be.

I have a heart filled with such gratitude for this seven year old reminder to stay positive, choose kindness always, and that life is an ocean of waves that just keep rollin.

JLYNN

(a few of my favorites)

“The representation of the meaning of the word ‘joy’ is what describes my perception of her.”

“You are so well spirited and it is amazing how you are so positive most everyday.”

“Your beauty is true, inside and out. I will never forget you and appreciate your listening ear and your heart.”

“You are such an awesome, caring person that would always stand up for the underdog and your friends.”

“You are incredibly down to earth and so sweet. You are never afraid to stick up for others.”

(This one might be my favorite. I’m pretty sure was written by my friend Matthew)

“You are one of the most kind hearted people I know.”

I’m looking very forward to my 25th year with great gratitude for where I’ve been and what I’ve learned. I’m proud of the understanding of myself that I have thus far and can’t wait to discover more as my world continues to change on the journey of life.

I hope you all have a beautiful May 27th. ♥

x

My Whole 30 Journey: The Experience

 

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***I could have broken this up into part 1, 2, 3, etc… but I just put all my overall experience here (for the most part). Skim through, read what looks interesting, come back…however. But most anything you want to know about my overall Whole 30 experience you will find here in this post. Anything else, check the links below for the rest of the posts from this series.! xx

The Whole 30.

Wow. This has definitely been a wild ride. What I thought was just going to be a food experiment turned out to be an emotionally stimulating experience that has brought about a new level of maturity in me that I couldn’t be more grateful for.

In my last post (‘What now?’) I talked about going through the Whole 30 evaluation checklist and I did, but before I get into that, I want to talk about a something else that is super important to think about before starting this experience.

REINTRODUCTION.

For me, this was kinda like pregnancy. They say it’s 9 months then you get into it and then you find- actually it’s ten. I haven’t experienced this firsthand but I’ve read the blog posts. I was so scared about the meal planning prep part that I glazed over reintroduction and totally wasn’t ready. Physically with my food options or mentally. That is totally on me yes. Combine that with our trip to the beach and I was just all kinds of messed up.

So. With that being said, I have to be honest and say that I tried reintroduction and did not succeed. I’m kindof ok with it though because my main focus wasn’t really trying to track down the source of something problematic happening. I kinda just went back into eating beans and rice and that kind of thing whenever I wanted but waited on bread until I got home from beach.

I would recommend anyone wanting to do this to take reintroduction into account before starting the program, while still in the planning stages.

It’s important! Even though I wasn’t looking for the cause of a specific health problem, I do in some ways feel like (in the smallest way) I fell a little eentsy bit short of my goal. I still feel successful but I will most definitely be paying more attention to this should I do this again.

MEAL PLANNING. 

This is also super important to think about before starting but I thought it best to include my thoughts on this in tomorrow’s recipes post so stay tuned!

So on to my evaluation…

Not going to lie, I was hoping to see some improvement in my pms symptoms but I didn’t. That was kinda a bummer but I did have so much going on that week and the stressful situations just seemed to pile up so that could have been a contributor. I didn’t see improvement in my pms but lets talk about where I DID see improvement…

***highlighted in red are my original program goals mentioned in my first post, ‘Thoughts on beginning the Whole 30’.

Leaner Appearance
Although I appear smaller because of my leaner appearance, I was able to do exactly as I said I wanted which was to maintain/gain. On my last day I weighed in at 1 lb heavier with my weight flocculating between 1-5 pounds heavier than my first weigh in over the course of the 30 days. Victory even despite the fact that 95% of people end up losing weight on this program.  I was doing 30-35 minutes of yoga 3x week.

No more chronic fatigue
I wouldn’t really say I had chronic fatigue in the way that a lot of people experience it but I most definitely feel more alert all throughout the day.

An improvement in your specific symptoms or condition
I had been experiencing a chronic chest tightness for a while. I had an xray done of my chest not too long ago and everything was fine. A shoulder massage would relieve the discomfort a bit but I have had a significant reduction in the tightness to the point where I barely feel it, if at all. This is probably my most favorite thing I noticed.

More optimistic
I’ve always tried to be a pretty positive person but I can honestly say I feel more optimistic about my own self if that makes any sense? I feel like I proved something to myself. I’m proud of myself I suppose :)

You respond better to stress
I don’t think I 100% have won this battle but I certainly feel more equipped.

No more anxiety
This is another one that I don’t think I’m 100% there yet but I have had zero panic attacks in the last 30 days and have had only a couple hypochondriac moments which for me is amazing. My husband will tell you I’m always thinking my arm is going to just fall off or something and there has been non of that! Ok except for those couple of times. But progress is progress!

No more sugar cravings
I can honestly say my sugar cravings are under control (VICTORY!!!!!). I was able to identify them early on and learn myself. It’s important to pay attention to all aspects of your cravings. For me, I noticed I craved sweets first thing in the morning and right before bed. I recognized that, stopped allowing myself sweets (fruit) in the morning and at night and I no longer wake up with that “gotta have OJ or I will pass out” feeling. I also don’t even really feel hungry at 11pm-12am any more. They say eating before bed is ok for people who have a hard time gaining weight so I don’t mind eating before bed (10ish) but I was tired of craving chocolate and ice cream at midnight for sure.

Improved self esteem

Improved self confidence
Both of the above things are very true for me. I said I was going to do this and I did. I didn’t stray from the program once. Not when everyone was eating pizza and sweets in my face during eater (I even resisted my FIL’s famous stuffing!!!!!!!!!) and not when I was stressed as all get out and there was tons of Easter candy left out and about as my mind tried to tell me it would ease all the frustration. I resisted and stuck to my goal. Definitely a boost of self esteem and confidence in the self disciple department.

You remember things more easily
Strangely enough, my husband even commented on this!

Your focus is improved
I’m not sure if this is a physical side effect or if this is just because I have improved self esteem and confidence but either way I have felt somewhat like super woman lately in the focus department…

You fall asleep more easily

You sleep more soundly

You awaken feeling refreshed
After the chest tightness improvement, this little trio of sleep improvement is my favorite. All of these things are true in every sense of the word. My husband has noticed and it has just been wonderful. Waking up no longer takes me an hour but I can pop right out of bed and get to my day. I’m even able to wake up earlier! Anyone who knows me knows this is NOT the norm. Sleep improvement is awesome. You should try this program for that alone.

Your energy levels are consistently high

More energy to exercise

You can go hours between meals and still feel ok***
I am modifying this a little bit because this has never been an issue for me. My issue was that I could go for what seemed like forever without eating and be ok. Then suddenly, I would be starving. Quick glass of orange juice and I would be fine. That is not the case any longer! I have a more consistent body hunger clock I guess you would call it and I love that!

You have a healthier relationship with food
I definitely have a greater appreciation and respect for it for sure. This program has changed the way I look at food without a doubt. It showed me that it’s not the food I have an issue (or disinterest) with, it’s the navigation of my circumstances. I do think I need to work on breaking my traditional breakfast food standards though. I just have a hard time wanting to eat anything for breakfast that isn’t considered breakfast food. There is progress still to be made!

Reduction in disordered eating habits
meal skipping!

You practice mindful eating

You have learned how to read a label
I have definitely dipped my toes in the understanding and importance of food ingredients. I can’t lie though, I have gained a bit of a distrust for the food media but I plan to touch on that later.

You learned how to cook
And people actually liked it! A foundation for cooking confidence has surely been built.

You don’t use food for comfort
Week 3 success!

You are no longer a slave to sugar and carbs
I am still a slave to pizza. I think about it all the time.

You know when you’re hungry and when you’re just craving

You have fewer cravings

You have coping strategies to deal with cravings

You naturally have more variety, color, vitamins and minerals in your diet.
Although balance is something I am still working on!

When you indulge, it’s deliberate
I did have a few coconut date balls on Easter…

You have healthy habits to pass down to your kids

You are more knowledgeable about nutrition

You have new cooking skills

You have a whole new good food recipe repertoire

You have learned how to make mealtime prep organized and efficient

You know how to make a health goal and stick to it for success

You have a new nicer food vocabulary

People come to you for advice

All of that in 30 days.

And to be honest, I don’t even feel like I was the best at this! To see the full evaluation checklist check out this page on the Whole 30 website. When I went through it, I couldn’t believe how many things it was shaping up to be. Things that had improved without me even noticing! The sleep one was probably the most surprising because it took me so long to realize haha!

One thing I wouldn’t do again? I wouldn’t do this over a holiday. Even if you think you can, even if it’s an “easy” holiday. I managed. I succeeded. But I think I made things a lot more difficult for myself as well.

Any other important advice? Don’t forget about reintroduction! So if you’re planning to take a trip after the program, make sure you budget 12 or so extra days to be completely through.

Would I recommend this program? YES.  I do think this program is geared more toward people who have overeating issues but that doesn’t matter. If you go into knowing what you want from it and remain true to the program, you’ll get what you want out of it. I sure did. I recommend this program because it’s not just about food. It’s so much more than that. For me, what I thought was just a 30 day nutrition program to get me off bad food, and started on better eating habits, turned into a month of self discovery about the way I deal with circumstances in my life, overcoming anxiety and taking notice of the  ease of putting off your feelings only to take them out on something totally unrelated. Buuut, I achieved my food goals too. ;)

Would I try this again? Absolutely. I plan to actually. Not sure it will happen this year but if it does I’m thinking September. Now that I know more of what to expect I imagine the process will be a little more simple next go around and I will feel more confident in what I am doing as opposed to it feeling more like trial and error. The crew over at the Whole 30 describes it as “a learning tool designed to help you figure out which foods make you more healthy…”  As I’ve said, I didn’t get into it to pinpoint a specific health issue, I just knew I wanted to get away from the sugar and processed foods. I think the next go’round I will pay more attention to this aspect of the program.

Would I say I feel like my “life has changed?” Yes. I would say yes because this program empowered me mentally and physically. I’ve learned to give myself grace, and not beat myself up so much. I’ve seen my self discipline at work and also learned a lot about the food industry in general. My interest in food is at a place I never thought it would be and I feel like this is only the beginning. I would call that life changing, but I suppose we shall see! I don’t think I’m exactly where I need to be but I also have no intentions of jumping back into the way  I was eating before. I’m going to take what I have learned and experienced and apply it. In all aspects of my life. And I can’t believe I’m saying this but…I might actually post about food here.

I hope all of my success even in the midst of hardship has encouraged you! To wrap up my Whole 30 series I have a list of the recipes I used throughout the month coming at you next. Like I said, I will also be talking about meal planning. That may be my last “Whole 30” post but I do in fact have some more thoughts on food I’ll be posting soon.

Thanks for traveling this journey with me even if you’ve just been skimming through. If you plan on trying this and have any questions please hit up the comments below or my contact page and shoot me an email!

Love to you all!

xx

Thoughts on beginning the Whole 30
Week 1
Week 2
Week 3
Week 4
Finishing the Whole 30: What now?
My Whole 30 Journey: Recipes